Breakdown in love, trust or emotional connection:
You and your spouse were made for connection. Yet when your marital connection becomes unplugged your love for your beloved grows cold and you feel completely distant from the very one whom you committed to spend a lifetime. You find it so hard to trust your spouse with your heart. You feel alone and wonder if your relationship can be saved. We can work together to restore lost love, trust and emotional connection. You and your spouse can become attuned to each other’s heart felt need and desires.
Loss of togetherness or romance:
We all have experienced moments of overwhelming stress in living. You struggle to make time for our own self let alone for others. The quality time for one of the most important persons in your life, your spouse, is absent. And the sense of togetherness that fuels your romance is lost. Collaboratively, I can help you recapture togetherness and rekindle romance. You and your spouse can enjoy each other’s presence and acts of love again.
Difficulty with commitment, communication or conflict management:
We feel unsafe and insecure in a relationship where commitment is lacking. You don’t have a desire to engage in open communication when you question your spouse’s commitment to your marriage. And conflict resolution is difficult to achieve. I believe that commitment is the glue that bonds your heart to the heart of your beloved. Together, we can create relational safety and security again so that you can effectively communicate and mutually resolve conflict.
Failure to practice acceptance or forgiveness:
It is only natural for you to protect your heart when you have been hurt by your beloved. The last thing in the world we think about is forgiveness when we are hurt in spite of past acts of love. You construct an emotional wall to protect your heart instead. The only problem is that you are also locked behind that wall of protection. Forgiveness is the healing salve you will need for your wounded heart. I welcome that opportunity to support you in the process of applying forgiveness so that you and your beloved hearts are open to receive love and acceptance.